There are things that come naturally when we play with babies, like games that were played with us as babies. Sometimes in using a second language with my daughter, I feel like I cannot have the same bond as I might in my native tongue.
To be honest I think our bond goes far beyond what we can and can’t express with words; but as I find my feet using Korean with her, games that are universal to both our cultures have helped to make our interactions more relaxed and natural. Language wise, these games are simple enough that my mother (who is not studying and has little knowledge of Korean) has easily memorised the words and also plays them in Korean with Alice!
A simple game to start with is 까꿍!
I think this game is common in many cultures. It involes covering your face, or baby’s face, with hands or a blanket or behind a curtain, etc.
When I cover my face I might say: “엄마 없다~ 없다~”
Or Alice covers her face and I’ll say: “엘리스 없다~”
or ask a question like: “엘리스 어디서?”
It’s a nice opportunity to practice different grammar forms of “where are you?” and “where is mum?” type questions 😉
Then ofcourse you suddenly reveal your face and call out “까-꿍!”
I’m yet to meet a baby who doesn’t find this game endlessly hilarious.
Alice has been practicing saying “없다~” and “까꿍!” using this game since about 14 months. Her pronounciation is something like “어따~ 따~ 까꾸~~!”
She uses the word “까꿍” to express any time something is revealed and often does so with a very cute sense of humour.
눈을 가리다 to cover one’s eyes